Dernière mise à jour : 25 août 2026
If you cannot pass urine right now
Go to hospital today. A bladder that cannot empty is painful, it does not resolve by waiting, and prolonged obstruction damages the kidneys. Draining it with a catheter relieves it within minutes. Working out why it happened comes afterwards — and in women that part genuinely matters, because the answer is rarely obvious.
An earlier version of this article set out the classification and management without saying this anywhere. In an emergency in Thailand, call 1669.
- Centre d'urologie Hôpital de Bangkok Thaïlande Réservation en ligne 02-310-3009 bhquro@bdms.co.th
- Hôpital Samitivej Sriracha Chonburi 088-022-1445
Why it is uncommon — and why that is a problem
Retention is far less frequent in women than in men, by something in the order of one to more than ten. Women have no prostate, and the female urethra is short and wide, so mechanical obstruction is unusual.
The consequence is worth stating plainly: because it is rare, it is frequently not looked for. Women describing difficulty emptying are told it is a urinary infection, or anxiety, or nothing, and the correct diagnosis arrives years later. That is the practical reason for this page.

The causes
The earlier version of this article listed childbirth, anti-incontinence surgery, neurogenic bladder, underactive bladder, tumours and pregnancy. Those are real, but several of the commonest and most consequential causes were absent, and they are included here.
Mechanical
- Pelvic organ prolapse. A bladder or uterus descending into the vagina kinks the outlet, and this is among the commonest causes of poor emptying in older women. It was missing from the earlier version. Women often describe a bulge, or having to push it back to pass urine.
- Severe constipation. A loaded rectum presses on the bladder outlet — simple, common and easily corrected.
- A pelvic mass, including a large fibroid, or a retroverted uterus in early pregnancy — classically at around the third or fourth month, and resolving once the uterus rises out of the pelvis.
- Tumours of the urethra, bladder neck or gynaecological organs, et urethral narrowing after previous surgery or radiotherapy.
- After surgery for urinary incontinence, where the support placed under the urethra can be too tight. This is correctable, and important to recognise rather than accept.
After childbirth
Common, and usually temporary. Epidural anaesthesia, a long labour, an instrumental delivery, perineal pain and swelling all contribute. It matters because a bladder left overfull for hours after delivery can be damaged, and because women in pain after childbirth often do not notice they have not passed urine. It should be actively checked rather than waited for.
Medicines
Absent from the earlier version, and worth checking in every case: anticholinergic drugs including those given for an overactive bladder, older sedating antihistamines, decongestants in cold remedies, opioid painkillers, anaesthesia, and tricyclic antidepressants.
Nerve and spinal causes
- Multiple sclerosis, spinal cord disease, diabetes affecting the nerves, and previous radical pelvic surgery.
- Pressure on the nerves at the base of the spine, which is an emergency — see the red flags below.
- A first episode of genital herpes. Severe pain and inflammation, sometimes with nerve involvement, can stop a young woman passing urine altogether. It is temporary, it is frightening, and it is often not connected to the rash.

The diagnosis most often missed in young women
This deserves its own section, and it was not in the earlier version at all.
A young woman, typically in her twenties or thirties, gradually stops emptying properly. The striking feature is what is absent: she often feels no urge and little pain, despite holding a very large volume — the opposite of the picture in a man with an obstructed prostate. The problem is a sphincter that will not relax rather than anything blocking the way, and it is sometimes triggered by an operation or a period on opioids.
Because the presentation is so unlike ordinary retention, these women are commonly told the problem is psychological, and the delay to diagnosis is frequently measured in years. It is recognised on measuring what is left in the bladder and confirmed with specialist testing, and there are treatments for it. If this description fits you, it is worth asking for a bladder scan after passing urine — a two-minute test that settles the question.
Voir également underactive bladder in women, which covers the related situation where the bladder muscle itself is weak.
What treatment involves
- Draining the bladder, either with a catheter left in or by intermittent catheterisation, which many women learn to do themselves and generally prefer.
- Resting the bladder. A bladder stretched well beyond its capacity is temporarily damaged and needs time before it will contract properly again — which is why the catheter stays for a period rather than being removed the same day.
- Finding and correcting the cause at the same time — reviewing medicines, clearing constipation, treating infection, addressing prolapse, releasing a too-tight incontinence support.
- A trial without the catheter, with the residual volume checked afterwards rather than relying on how it felt.
Most women whose cause is identified and corrected do return to passing urine normally. The earlier version of this article gave a figure of 92.6% from a single published series; the direction is right and the decimal place is not, and it has been removed. Where retention persists, intermittent self-catheterisation is a manageable long-term solution rather than a failure, and other treatments exist depending on the cause.

Symptômes nécessitant une attention immédiate
- Being unable to pass urine with a painful full lower abdomen.
- New weakness or numbness in the legs, numbness around the buttocks or genitals, or loss of bowel control alongside difficulty passing urine. This suggests pressure on the nerves at the base of the spine and is an emergency measured in hours, not days.
- Fever or shaking chills with difficulty passing urine.
- Not having passed urine within several hours of giving birth, whether or not it feels uncomfortable.
- Constant dribbling with a full, uncomfortable abdomen — an overflowing bladder rather than an improvement.
Foire aux questions (FAQ)
Why does this happen to women at all, if there is no prostate?
Because obstruction is only one route to a bladder that will not empty. In women the causes are more often prolapse kinking the outlet, nerve conditions, medication, the after-effects of childbirth or surgery, or a sphincter that will not relax. It is much less common than in men, which is precisely why it is often missed.
I am in my thirties, I do not feel much urge, but I never seem to empty. What could that be?
The absence of urge and pain despite a large retained volume is characteristic rather than reassuring, and in young women it points to a sphincter that will not relax rather than to anything psychological. Ask for a bladder scan immediately after passing urine — it takes two minutes and settles the question.
Can medicines cause it?
Yes, and this is checked in every case. Anticholinergic drugs including those prescribed for an overactive bladder, older antihistamines, decongestants in cold remedies, opioid painkillers, anaesthesia and tricyclic antidepressants can all contribute.
Is it normal after childbirth?
It is common and usually temporary, particularly after an epidural, a long labour or an instrumental delivery. It still needs acting on, because a bladder left overfull for hours can be damaged, and women in pain after delivery frequently do not notice they have not passed urine.
Will I need a catheter permanently?
Usually not. Most women whose cause is found and corrected return to passing urine normally. Where it persists, intermittent self-catheterisation — which most women manage easily once taught — is a practical long-term arrangement rather than a defeat, and other treatments exist depending on the underlying cause.
Prendre rendez-vous pour une consultation
Le Dr Soarawee Weerasopone reçoit des patients Hôpital de Bangkok Siège social et à l'hôpital Samitivej Sriracha à Chonburi le 088-022-1445. Bring a list of everything you take including anything bought without a prescription, details of any pelvic or incontinence surgery, and the record of how much was drained if you have already been catheterised.
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Avis de non-responsabilité : Ce contenu a été rédigé et examiné par le Dr Soarawee Weerasopone, urologue certifié par le conseil médical au Bangkok Hospital Headquarters, et est destiné uniquement à des fins éducatives. Il ne constitue pas un avis médical, un diagnostic ou une prescription pour un individu, et aucun avis, diagnostic ou prescription n'est donné par le biais des canaux de messagerie personnelle ou des réseaux sociaux. Le Dr Soarawee ne gère aucun compte de réseau social public ; tout compte proposant une consultation privée en son nom est frauduleux. En cas d'urgence en Thaïlande, composez le 1669.
Rédigé et examiné par un médecin : Dr Soarawee Weerasopone (Dr. Pom) — Urologue certifié par le conseil d'administration, Bangkok Hospital Headquarters, en pratique urologique depuis 2016. Bourse : Chirurgie robotique, Chang Gung Memorial Hospital, Taïwan (2019) · Stage d'observation : Endourologie, Juntendo University Hospital, Tokyo (2022) · Chercheur invité et observateur clinique, Scott Department of Urology, Baylor College of Medicine, États-Unis (2025-2026).

Le Dr Soarawee Weerasopone (Dr Pom) est urologue certifié par le Board au Bangkok Hospital Headquarters, spécialisé en santé masculine, chirurgie robotique (da Vinci Xi) et traitement des calculs rénaux. Il est actuellement Research Scholar et Clinical Observer au Scott Department of Urology du Baylor College of Medicine (2025-2026), sous la direction du Pr Mohit Khera. Il a effectué un fellowship en chirurgie robotique au Chang Gung Memorial Hospital, à Taïwan (2019), et un observership en endo-urologie au Juntendo University Hospital, à Tokyo (2022).

